Keep it Simple, Meaningful, and Fun
Christmas time can be beautiful when you purpose to make it that way. I know we have had a few stressful holidays before and had to learn how to navigate those waters.
Many families struggle this time of year so I’m sharing 3 suggestions on how to keep the main thing the main thing: keep it simple, meaningful, and fun.
Sometimes people have too high of expectations of others and what Christmastime should look like. I have seen gatherings be harder for some families, and not others.
Sometimes it’s pride that gets in the way.
Sometimes it’s expecting something out of someone that they can not possibly give, like loving-kindness.
Sometimes it’s just as simple as bitterness they have in their heart that is exemplified in every area of their life, and it spills over to become family drama.
Sometimes those things can be talked through with maturity, and hugs and happy tears are given in the end.
Sometimes boundaries have to be put in place because you call for peace rather than being infected by their contempt.
For those that can lay pride aside, maybe your expectations too, be willing to love those people where they are at instead.
Christmastime can be meaningful, kept simple, and joy follows the fun you create.
I am sorry that some of you find yourself overwhelmed with grief from a difficult relationship. I find that I have more messages from grieving individuals during the holidays than any other time of the year.
I find myself repeating, “We all have that one difficult thing or person in our life. It just looks different in each situation because your story is unique from another.”
Jason and I have found it rewarding to serve others using our gifts during the Christmas season.
When we lead, we avoid unnecessary drama.
Reach out to someone in need, like those that are sick or widows who may need something that you can provide, like a meal or simple conversation.
Smile at the person behind the counter when you purchase groceries.
Give generously when you can.
You never know what others are going through, especially during the holiday season.
I do hope your season of Christmastime can be those 3 things I mentioned above. It doesn’t come naturally to contentious people, but if you can purpose to lessen the stress by having the right response, creating an environment of peace and love in your own home, then you can rest knowing you are able to enjoy this holiday season with one another.
With all the love and kindness, Merry Christmas everyone! Peace on earth and goodwill to men.
Natalie