Some days, I wish the apostle Paul was married so I could study how he handled certain scenarios. He has so much written about marriage, but yet, sometimes I think his words are a complete mystery.
Every marriage is different… different dynamics, different circumstances, and in different eras.
Granddad and Grandmother’s words and advice ring true, but in that same breath, our generation has a lot more distractions and different challenges.
It’s cliché to say that we need to “go to the Bible for those answers that we are looking for.” Although that is 100% true, one thing I do want to point out that I am so grateful for is having other like-minded married friends walk through life alongside us.
It’s one of the biggest blessings God gives us on this earth. I don’t think we are meant to do life alone, nor do I believe it’s healthy to isolate.
As believers, walking alongside, sharpening one another, and bearing a burden is what we are called to do for each other.
So next time you have a question, a concern, or a moment of weakness, don’t hesitate to confide in “your people” because that is what the Body is here for. And if a certain group of people pretend to have it all figured out, they’ve not lived enough life yet, and wouldn’t be who I would go to for counsel or for friendship.
Move on to who is encouraging, who celebrates with you, who mourns when you mourn, and is uplifting the Word of God at all times.
No couple’s lives will ever be the same, but walking somewhat parallel lives is an encouragement on the journey of life.
So journey on with one another friends. Keep your eyes fixed upon the Lord!
Natalie